Ironically today I received news of 2 people in my life named Camila or Camilla.

My friend, colleague, and mentor Camila Alire won the ALA Presidential election and will be ALA President in 2009-2010. I campaigned for Camila actively. As I said in my endorsement for her (http://camilaalire.wordpress.com/endorse-camila/) “I have known Camila for many years and have worked with her on planning an event for JCLC in 2006. Her energy, dedication, and positive attitude are traits that I have long admired. She has that special gift of being able to listen — as well as to lead. I greatly respect all that Camila has done in the area of diversity.
When I am around Camila, I can feel the energy and caring that she transmits.”

I look forward to her presidency.

On another, sadder note, Camilla Lewis, from Brooklyn Public Library has passed away. I have no further details at present. She was a very warm, nurturing, and caring person as well as an extremely competent individual. I was lucky to know her. I am sorry though that I never tried to keep in touch with her after I left BPL.

I sit here very weary, but very content.

Today I attended NJLA Annual Conference.

Some observations:

I always love seeing my old colleagues from all over NJ, some who have even traveled here from further away. Some I keep in contact with regularly. Some I do not keep in touch with presently as regularly, but they have played a role in my professional development as a librarian. Some have even been part of my support system.

And then there are new acquaintances–or people I might have met for a minute at some other conference and now have an opportunity to futher develop our relationship.

I enjoy my conference lunches — those when a friend and I just decide to go get lunch together). Sometimes we escape from the formal setting of the conference. I did that today with a special person. I am very glad that I was able to do it.

So, NJLA 2008 was my day in Libraryland, with my other family. People who also enjoy working in libraries and bringing information, empowerment, and fun together with the people we work with.

It started when I was very small. I always remember my parents’ apartments (and later on, our house) being filled with music from the radio and phonograph players we owned. Car rides always featured music as well (Make Believe Ballroom on Sundays on our way to our grandparents.

I remember yellow and red colored children’s LPS. One of them was for Passover and it had “The Frog Song” on one side.

I remember watching Peter Pan with Mary Martin on TV and Amahl and the Night Visitors as well. Later on, there was a revival of Annie Get Your Gun with Ethel Merman (Old Fashioned Wedding was written especially for that production).

My first showtune albums were Fiddler on the Roof and South Pacific (I still have them!).

I loved the TV variety shows and specials. Carol Burnett was a special favorite. The Bell Telephone Hour had great music specials too. 

I remember first seeing Oscar Peterson on a salute to Irving Berlin with Steve Lawrence and Edie Gorme. That started my affinity for Oscar’s wonderful piano playing.

Tony Bennett and Lena Horne did a medley of Harold Arlen songs on another special. I still have the cassette tape with this great duet.

Movies were another great way of my getting my showtune fix. I loved Oliver, The King and I, Guys and Dolls, and Hans Christian Anderson (first written for the screen). Then there were those fantastic Disney musicals, especially Mary Poppins. Feed the Birds still brings chills down my spine.

I always enjoyed listening to jazz and pop vocal versions of showtunes. Which led me in late 2001 to visit the Institute for Jazz Studies @ Rutgers, Newark. I was originally doing research on Oscar Peterson for an article. But, to make a long story short, through a series of fortuitous circumstances, I am now finishing my first book–on jazz. I put Oscar P. on the back burner — for now.

Passover Morning #1Enjoyed spending time with my sister, mom, niece, and nephew. We stayed for about 2 hours, then headed home to NJ.

Passover Seder 2

Maury was tired. He asked for an abbreviated Seder. It was abbreviated, but we still said all the important prayers, AND we sang all of my favorite songs including the 2 from Hallel that we had sung the night before. It was a lot of fun, tho we were both very tired from having traveled. We used the Lovell Hagaddah by Rabbi Matthew Berkowitz ( more on this in a later post) and round a few interesting things (relating to his commentary) to discuss during our meal.

I enjoyed this mini seder (only us two) just as much as the previous nights.

What a very lovely time I had. Maury and I chatted with my sisters in-laws. Spent time with my nephew and my cousin/his “little” frat brother. Seder was fun. Playing charades, adults vs. kids, trying to guess Passover-related words. Talking about “free will”. Lots of thought-provoking conversation. I loved singing many of my favorite songs– Dayenu, Adir Hu, Had Gadya, B’Shana Haba B’Yerushalyaim. PLUS from Hallel Ki L’olam Hasdo and Yevarech. The food was delicious. Everyone enjoyed themselves.

Last week I led a Shiva Minyan for one of our Temple members. It’s always a very poignant time for me. I am very lucky to have most of my loved ones alive and well.

Yesterday and today, I posted some info for a good friend of mine who had lost her mother. More poignant feelings.

Tonight I attended another Shiva minyan for another of our Temple members.

I am thankful that I could help out.

I feel emotionally drained but I should be rejuvenated by tomorrow. Hopefully.

I still have a bit to go with getting ready for Passover. Right now, however, it’s getting late (not too late but I am tired after getting up at 6 this morning and a full days work plus commuting).

So, I figured I’d write a bit about Passover.

It’s always been a special holiday for me.

In spite of the preparation, I enjoy hosting seders. I have very fond memories of seders I attended as a child and teenager–many of which were led my my Grandfather, Isadore Glass. He always had great stories to tell and the seders would (seem to) go faster each year. This was also an occasion for getting together with my relatives. I enjoyed seeing my older cousins and playing with the younger ones.

I also loved to hunt for — and find the afikoman — which meant I would either get a present I chose or money.

After I married Maury, we hosted a good number of seders at our place. I enjoyed being the hostess and sharing what had been a special experience for me as I was growing up with our guests, some of whom had never been to a seder before.

This year we’ll be at my sister’s house the first night. It will be nice to spend time with my sister her husband, my mom, my niece and nephew, and my sister’s in-laws and friends.

The second seder will be just Maury and myself at our house. We started a tradition several years back of looking at Haggadahs we own (some dating back from the 1920′s) as we said the different prayers. We talk about where we or our parents and sometimes grandparents might have been when that particular Haggadah was published. It’s become a special custom for us. This year we’ll also lookat the Lovell Haggadah by Rabbi Matthew Berkowitz. It’s a very well-done, interactive, and ilustrated with gorgeous illuminations which Rabbi Berkowitz himself created.

My friend Jacqueline sent me this. Her husband attended this model seder.

From www.sdjewishworld.com

JEWISH CITIZEN

The thought at the Red Sea : Si, se puede!

By Donald H. Harrison

harrisonLA JOLLA, California—Tad Seth Parzen, president of the San Diego chapter of the American Jewish Committee, concluded a model seder for the Latino-Jewish Coalition on Tuesday evening, April 1, by recalling the story from Exodus about the time the Israelites were at the shore of the Red Sea with the thundering chariots of the Egyptians fast approaching them. According to a midrash, when Moses dipped his staff into the waters, they did not immediately part. Not until one of the Israelites waded into the sea, believing God surely would act, did the miracle of the parting of the waters occur.

Like Cesar Chavez, who organized California farmworkers and became a symbol of Latinos’ quest for justice, that Israelite believed si, se puede (yes, it is possible), Parzen told coalition members and guests. The Latino Jewish Coalition, a group under AJC sponsorship, stresses links and common cause between the two peoples.

Indeed, during the abbreviated seder conducted by Rabbi Mel Libman of Congregation Shir Ami of Encinitas at the Lawrence Family JCC here, numerous analogies were made between Moses as a leader of the enslaved Hebrews and Chavez as the leader of exploited Mexican workers.

David Vallodolid, co-chair of the Latino-Jewish Coalition, noted that the preceding day was Cesar Chavez Day, which paid tribute “to the man who took us out of the slavery of the farms and the fields.” He said that the annual Passover seder has meaning for all peoples because it teaches such values as respect and dignity.

Parzen said that the seder teaches Jews that they must show compassion for immigrants because “we were once strangers in a strange land.” In a pluralistic society, he added, “it is important that we have compassion for each other.”

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MODEL SEDER—Rabbi Mel Libman of Congregation Shir Ami leads the Latino-Jewish Coalition
at a model seder at the Lawrence Family JCC. At left foreground is Tad Seth Parzen, president
of the San Diego chapter of the American Jewish Committee which helped to organize the
Coalition and in background, with guitar, is Tibi Zohar, co-chairman of the San Diego Jewish
Community’s Israel-at-60 celebration. At right, Joy Wasserman lights the holiday candles as Robert Borboa and Judith Chazin observe.

Bernardo Ferdman, an Argentine Jew who serves as a coalition cochairman, suggested that there is “no more fitting match than between Cesar Chavez’s struggle and the holiday of Passover… a holiday about freedom and justice.” He added that “Passover happens every single year…we are still freeing ourselves.”

While there were a sprinkling of other Jewish Latinos in the assemblage of approximately 70 people, most of the Latinos were Catholics. Rabbi Libman suggested that “both our religions are an envelope, but the contents are the same.”

Libman said the eggs and the greens on the table both symbolized spring and the renewal of life Prior to the karpas ceremony, in which the greens are dipped in salt water to recall the tears of slavery, the Conservative rabbi asked participants if they could think of any place where people are enslaved today. ” Darfur !” called out one. ” Tibet !” said another. ” Guantanamo Bay ,” said yet another. Others called out such victims “substance abusers,” and “women in many societies.”

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KARPAS CEREMONY—From left, Ron Baza, former state Assemblyman Howard Wayne and
Alan Nevin reach for parsley during the Karpas ceremony at Latino-Jewish model seder.

The seder service was constructed to include readings in five languages: Hebrew, Aramaic, English, Spanish and Ladino. There were also amendations to various service parts—for example, the Haggadah created for the occasion included Four New Questions for participants to ponder.

Written by Rabbi Glenn Ettman, assistant rabbi at Congregation Beth Israel, these were:

1) “What if Moses were alive today? To where would Moses lead the Jewish people? Why would the Jewish people follow him? Why would Moses do it? Why did he lead the people in the first place?”

2) “.. (A)fter attaining fredom thing were not always perfect. What are some of the dangers of freedom? In what ways can “being free” go too far? Is there ever any time when people are truly and completely free?”

3. “…What are some things that this year we are being liberated from or wish to be liberated from? How would you finish (the) sentence ‘Tonight, I celebrate my freedom from…’ What better times do you hope to attain this year?”

4. “…Why is remembering Jewish history important? Why is passing holiday family tradition so important? What is the significance to thinking about the uture and what the next journey will bring? In what ways are all three connected to the whole theme of the holiday?”

Harrison is editor and publisher of San Diego Jewish World

I’m up in Newark today @ the Institute for Jazz Studies. This has been my second home for the last 6 years while I am writing my book. The staff is wonderful and they make me feel very comfortable. Their support for me as I continue this sometimes daunting task means a lot to me.

Today I am looking over a few books and am going to listen to Dick Wellstood (the stride pianoplayer).

It’s several hours later. Listening to Dick Wellstood was fantastic. I love his “Snowy Mountain Blues”, “Carolina Shout”, “Maple Leaf Rag” and a bunch of others. Next time I come to IJS I’d like to watch a video or 2 of him playing.

I read through the book, Giant Strides by Edward N. Meyer and I found out: 

Ironically, Wellstood played @ my alma mater, Douglass College right after I graduated. What’s more he used to play @ the Monmouth County Library, where I worked as a page, summers during my college years. The man who brought him to the MCL, Jack Livingstone, was one of my mentors.  It was neat to read that–I also vaguely remember seeing ads for those events way back when. Too bad I didn’t take advantage of going to see Dick Wellstood when I could have.

Today is my last day of leave. I feel tired and allergic. The weather is dreary.

I am feeling 100% better than I was a month ago. I needed this time to recuperate and regenerate.

I know myself better–physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

The hardest part was not the physical pain but others understanding that it was the pain was part of the healing process.

Now the big challenge will be to make the time for my continual physical, spiritual,and creative growth.

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